Be ye not conformed to the world but be ye transformed by renewing of your mind by the Holy Spirit. Do not take world wisdom from people who are not in christ ,for example: Andrew Tate, Hamza and Red pill youtubers. Most of them don't know the first thing about marriage that's one of the reasons we shouldn't listen to them. We are to be in tuned to the word of God and not to the ways of the world something to keep in my mind. God Bless.