Most of us have a clear idea of what we value. We'd say faith, family, growth, financial responsibility. The list sounds right when we say it out loud. The harder question is whether the way we actually spend our time, money, and attention reflects that list.
This lesson gets at something specific: the gap between your stated values and your lived behavior. That gap is not a character flaw. It's information. It tells you where you're running on autopilot, where you've made unconscious tradeoffs, and where you might need to do some honest recalibrating before inviting another person into your life.
The five areas we look at are faith, relationships, work and purpose, money, and personal growth. Pick one that you're most confident about and one where you suspect there's a gap. You don't have to share both.
Where is the biggest distance between what you say you value and how you actually live, and what do you think is driving it?
Drop your honest answer below. This community is a safe place to say the real thing.