I just finished walking someone through the Foundation Before Forever workbook.
I left that conversation with one thought...
Most people don't need another dating app.
They need to believe they're already worthy before someone else tells them they are.
As I read through page after page, I wasn't looking at someone who lacked potential.
I was looking at someone who had the courage to confront the stories they'd been believing:
"I have to be perfect.""I have to earn love.""What if I end up alone?"
Those stories shape relationships far more than people realize.
The beautiful part?
Every unhealthy belief can be replaced with truth.
Healing doesn't happen because you finally meet the right person.
Healing happens when you become the kind of person who no longer accepts the wrong one.
If you're single, don't waste this season waiting.
Use it to heal. Use it to grow. Use it to know yourself. Use it to become so grounded in who God says you are that you stop chasing people who can't see your value.
The strongest relationships aren't built by two perfect people.
They're built by two healthy people who have done the work before forever.