Desire vs. Availability · The Feminine Reset

Desire vs. Availability

Let’s talk about something people dance around.

Wanting love doesn’t mean you’re available to everyone.

And being open doesn’t mean you’re accessible on demand.

Somewhere along the way, a lot of women learned how to shut desire down just to feel safe.

Others learned how to stay available even when their interest wasn’t really there — just so they wouldn’t be alone.

Neither one feels good.

There’s a difference between:

wanting connection

and making room for just any connection.

There’s also a difference between:

being open

and being easily reachable.

So let me ask you this — honestly:

Are you actually available for love right now…

or are you just craving the feeling of being wanted?

And when desire shows up —

do you meet it with curiosity, or with caution?

No right answers.

No pretending you’ve got it figured out.

Just tell the truth the way you feel it —

or sit with the question and see what comes up.

Both count.

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