We just dropped a new episode of Awkward Pillow Talk, and this one hits close to home—because everyone remembers their first time jitters. Whether it was meeting another couple, going to your first club, or even just bringing up the idea of exploring something new, those nerves can feel overwhelming.
In this episode, Steph and I share some of our own awkward beginnings—from walking out of house parties through the back door to a glory hole adventure that didn’t go as planned. We also break down practical tips on food, alcohol, setting rules, and managing expectations so those jitters don’t ruin the moment.
The truth is, jitters are normal. What matters is how you and your partner handle them together.
👉 So let’s open it up: What were your first time jitters like, and how did you get through them?