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Transfer Agency Back to Him
After describing reality instead of prescribing behavior, it can be easy to collapse back into a control mindset again when moving onto the next step of communicating with a teenager.
Instead of โSo you need to start going to the gym/So you need to spend more time outdoorsโ we want to aim for something like โWhat do you want to do with that?โ
Examples:
- โWhat do you think is getting in the way?โ
- โIf you wanted to change that, how would you approach it?โ
- โDoes that matter to you or not really?โ
Now heโs not being told, heโs being positioned as the decision-maker. Just a thought so as NOT to trigger pushback from him.
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Transfer Agency Back to Him
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