29d • Tantric Wisdom
Control can look a lot like love.
“Why are you talking to them?”
“Why do you dress like that?”
“You should do it this way.”
“I just want what’s best for you.”
But sometimes, underneath all of this is fear.
Fear that if you stop controlling, they might change.
Fear that they might leave.
Fear that you might lose them.
And the more you control someone, the less safe they feel being themselves around you.
Real love gives space.
It says:
“I may not always agree with you, but I trust you.”
“I choose you, but I don’t need to own you.”
“I want you here because you want to be here.”
That kind of freedom can actually create more closeness.
Because when someone feels free with you, they can choose you fully.
This week, notice where you are trying to control your partner when what they may actually need is trust.
Love them without holding them too tightly.
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Control can look a lot like love.
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