PIRF 485 is all about telling someone WHAT to do. They are NOT as smart as you and they are doing a bad job! So, you have to teach them!! As you give the person this information, pay attention to the little details and the words that emphasize what people should and shouldn’t do. Sound BOSSY! You are talking to someone close to you (family)—maybe your husband or your wife…your child…your mom! Someone close!