The expression I was born ready comes to mind. I was born during Mercury retrograde so I have a very different experience than most.
I thrive during mercury retrograde. That's one of my super powers. Another is awareness. Stay mindful of others who are not conscious to the effects of mercury retrograde on communication that includes the ex trying to sneak back into your life. If it's meant to be it will still be meant to be when retrograde is over.
Some tips to help you along.