In this video, we’re recapping the core skill behind joining in—whether it’s play on the playground or conversations at school: Watch first, then speak.
We’ll talk about why “just go play!” doesn’t work for a lot of kids, and what to do instead. You’ll also get simple, age-appropriate scripts (toddlers → teens), plus what to say when your child gets ignored—and how to spot wins that still count.
You’ll learn:
- The core skill: Watch → then speak
- Why scripts aren’t “forcing” kids (they reduce guesswork)
- What to say for different ages:
- What to do when kids get ignored
- What counts as a win (small steps matter!)
Reflection question:What shifted for your child this week—approaching, watching, using a script, or recovering after a tough moment?
Note: This content is educational only. It’s not therapy or medical advice.
👇 Comment below: How old is your child, and what’s the hardest “first step” right now—standing near, watching, or saying the first line?