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Bar 101: It’s Not Just About Pouring Drinks
If you’re new to the industry, the biggest misconception is that bartending is just about making drinks. It’s actually about reading people the second they walk through the door.
When a customer sits at the bar, you have to make a split-second call: Do they want to chat, or do they want to be left alone? Are they in a rush, or are they here to vent for an hour?
The "Kill With Kindness" Trick
If I see someone walk in with a sour mood, I use a simple trick: I tilt my head slightly and brighten my tone when I ask, "Hey, what can I get you?" It’s a small adjustment, but it’s usually enough to disarm them and set a better tone for the whole interaction.
Be the Expert
If someone sits at the bar, they’re looking for a guide. Don't make them guess what to order. You need to know your beer list inside and out. You don’t have to love every beer, but you must know what they taste like. Can you describe the difference between the drafts? Can you identify the main notes? When you can confidently recommend a beer based on their taste, you build instant trust.
Exuding Authority
Here is the truth: You don’t need to bend over backwards to be a good bartender. In fact, if you act like you’re doing everything to please everyone, you’ll get walked all over.
You have a job to do, and that includes being the authority behind the bar. If you act like you know exactly what you’re doing, people can feel it. Even if you’re a small person, standing tall and staying organized makes you look six feet tall to the customers. That confidence stops people from trying to mess with you, being rude, or pulling a "walkout" on their tab.
The Bottom Line
"The customer is always right" is a lie. As a bartender, you are the person responsible for the safety and the flow of the room. It’s okay to be firm. It’s okay to cut someone off. Learning how to set boundaries is the difference between being a good bartender and being a great one.
Don't be afraid to own your space. You’re in charge for a reason.
The "Golden Rules" of the Craft
If you want to be taken seriously behind the bar, remember these non-negotiables:
• Respect the Martini: Always chill your glass with ice and cold water first. And for the love of the craft—never shake your vermouth into the drink. A proper martini is stirred, and the vermouth should be used only to rinse the glass before adding your gin or vodka. If you’re shaking vermouth into the mixture, you’re serving a warm, diluted, and frankly, disgusting mess. If you’re doing that, you’re not a bartender.
• Never Scoop Ice with Glassware: If I see you scooping ice with a glass, you are automatically disowned and fired. It’s a massive safety hazard—glass shards in the ice well, anyone?—and it’s the hallmark of an amateur. Keep your glass out of the ice well, always.
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