“In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will,”
Ephesians 1:11 NKJV
Obtained means to receive.
Predestined means it’s already yours despite the circumstances around you. Despite what tv show is currently on, the tv show will eventually change on its own. God will shift a thing unexpectedly to align you with His purpose. God would position you in a place of sudden breakthrough and usually it’s a position of character development because He wants to first prepare your heart to receive the blessing.
It’s already yours. Your faith verifies that. You don’t need evidence to back up your faith. Your faith IS your evidence. When you come to the understanding that all you have to do is believe Him at His word despite the heartache. The heartache doesn’t define the final outcome.
Don’t give up because it didn’t work out the first time. Keep trying because in your loss there is gain. You loss a part of you that could no longer go with you to the new thing God is doing in your life and gained a part of you that could help you maintain the blessing God has for you.
You must have faith to know that if it’s from God, He will work it out. Be at peace in knowing no matter what odds are against you. If it is God’s will, if He PURPOSED you to receive that desire then it will happen for you. But first you must come to the acceptance of even if it doesn’t work out, God is still good. You must have faith that God—who has the power to do exceedingly and abundantly more than you can ask or think has greater for you. You must know there is more He has in store for you. Surrender everything to God and let Him work it out for you. Don’t grow an attachment to something that isn’t yet yours.
Be encouraged. Stand in your faith. Love God or come to love Him. He is indeed alive.