Sep 6 • General discussion
Don’t bite the hand that feeds you
There was a member here who gained free access to this group, a free membership, free products on repeat, 2 months of free rent and food from our homestead, hundreds of dollars in cash, free pet care, a platform to speak her story and gain support for her journey… and I didn’t ask for a single thing in return…
But when potent jealousy turns to resentment and that resentment becomes blatant disrespect, I need to draw a boundary for my own life.
I apologize if I lead anyone astray, or brought charity to a case that I should have vetted a little more thoroughly - I let my compassion, radical grace and live and let live allowance blur the lines of what was appropriate or acceptable. Red flags were either completely ignored or perhaps even justified by me, and that was a necessary learning opportunity for my own walk, but I sincerely apologize if it hurt anyone else. I hope in this situation that I’m extended the same radical grace that I give others so often, but my patience and tolerance is definitely wearing thin… I don’t care if you’re Joe Rogan or a homeless person. Some things are just not acceptable.
I give SO MUCH for free. The only thing I have ever asked for in return is a little respect and forward movement for the collective. This membership is just an offering. My work is for all of our humanity, and I’m fully aware that it’s saved both lives and hundreds of dollars on supplements and bodily sabotage. Plenty of people learn from me, and walk away better, with zero return or even expression of gratitude... This doesn’t mean that I am ignorant to my own worth, ignorant to your choices to just take, or that I will sit with any blatant transgressions against me or my family.
And listen, everyone has demons and a kind of traumatic walk… I don’t demand perfection. Healing is a journey. I worked with that soul for two dang months while she belittled me time and time again from her righteous high throne, which I encouraged and celebrated FOR HER… it’s wild times that someone with that kind of personal history and decision making in their own life would belittle anyone… WILD. Humble yourself, child. How dare you cast stones at another mother, I don’t care who you are.
At the end of the day, no one is entitled to my gifts. They are indeed gifts, whether your insecurities like it or not. Jealousy is a bitch, I totally get it. I have compassion, and I’ve walked with a lot of jealous bitches, with grace and allowance… and once I even ended up with a retaliatory CPS claim the moment I drew a boundary. I attract a dark energy with my radical stances, and there may be fallout from this boundary, too… I accept that. I stand firm. I’m plenty content with what all that I gave wholeheartedly to all those who betrayed me. No regrets. My heart remains happy and healthy, as do the hearts of my children and my husband. All is well. And so, for now at least, I will forge on.
I sincerely hope that this has your support, that you are confident in my pure intentions, always, but if it doesn’t, you are absolutely free to leave and I respect that. I wish you well, and yet it is still none of my business.
Apologies again for a story that has a sad, unfortunate ending. Hope she finds everything she is looking for, and continues to spread her wings toward soul sovereignty.
(Side note: if your heart still wants to support her, I support you! Like with anyone, just please be in tune with your personal boundaries. People can be very convincing when they are that deeply traumatized. Hurt people hurt people, and sometimes people only know what they know.)
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Don’t bite the hand that feeds you
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