Human nature in a nutshell is just the selfish tendencies we possess. That’s it. Very few of us are truly as selfless as we believe or as honest as we believe we are. We get jealous, we get angry, we get fearful. But all of these emotional states are selfish in nature. Ultimately it comes down to HOW WE FEEL about ourselves and this is the key to seduction and influence.
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• Can you change how people feel about themselves in an interaction? If the answer is yes then you possess the ability to influence. If no then you must understand that in an interaction the way we feel about ourselves is the energy we make other people feel. It’s all energy and if you feel insecure talking to someone they will feel that and unconsciously internalize that and begin to feel it themselves. This is how interactions become awkward and die.
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•Instead practice controlling your state throughout the day. Practice charging your mind and body with positive energy and focus on changing you self image through positive and determined action. Over time you will feel good about yourself and that will naturally come off to others. You must learn how to keep your state or “frame” and not let it break. Do not give anyone that much power over you.
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•The science behind it has to do with mirror neurons and the proprioceptive nervous system picking up on energetic cues but I won’t go to deep on that here as we touch on that in the Human Nature Secrets Module.