Sexuality, material desires, and liking physical things are not a bad thing. Clinging and attaching one’s self to them and one’s identity in them is, ONLY because you can never TRULY have physical things or be with physical things. These things are illusions by nature and loaned vehicles. You will have to return them all back to the world at some point and ultimately in death. Therefore enjoy your pleasures, embrace the pain and don’t resist what has always been and what must be.