Nov '25 (edited) • 💬 Discussion
Who Is Your Spiritual "Guru"?! Up for "Wo-Wo"? 🤓
Yesterday - for a change, I was challenged quite hard! I was about to dump the story here, in full detail. But since everyone is super-busy, the intention is: reduce to the max. 😅 Well, I'm really bad at keeping things crisp so it still takes a couple of minutes reading time.. In any case...
Yesterday was Kung Fu training for my nephews and nieces - some of you might know, that I bring them and pick them up, and then cook dinner for them twice a week. Well, in any case. Because they're 5, 7 and 8 years old means, I also have to "interact" with their mother, thus my brothers spouse.
Okay, this is a sensitive topic but anyway.. 🔥 The way she talks to them and her behavior is so negative and damaging to the little ones mindset, it's extremely tough to see. Seeing how she (unwillingly - I get that..) dumps her limiting believes and negative emotions on those little "brats" is heart-crushing, to say the least. In those moments I often feel helpless, and all I want to do is removing them from her mother, like for good!
Then, when the emotional dust has settled, when I re-adjusted to my center, I recall how much she - the mother - is in emotional pain. This this no excuse for her behavior, whatsoever! But, having radical ownership and responsibility in mind - I remind myself that she is nothing but my external reflection. So, I create these situation due to my inner BS. Which is insane, if you really think about it!
So, I see two radical ways of approaching this, in my model of the world:
A) I make sure the kids are being removed from her, since she is nothing but constantly overwhelmed. That, I consider to be the right approach in the "3D world".
B) From a "5D perspective", I take 100% responsibility. I do that by acknowledging that she is my own creation. I can look at her as (one of..) my spiritual teacher. When I choose to do so, the best way to dissolve that situation resourcefully is by breathing deeply, rising my awareness and then letting go. In addition to that, I recall the fact, that people are the way I SEE them. This means. If I see her as an incompetent mother, then that's exactly what she continues to be in the future. However, when I approach her with love and compassion, seeing her as whole and complete, that's what she ends up evolving to..
Where is my thinking about this coming from? Katie Byron, Michael Singer and the latest video I've just come across by Jane Roberts (Forbidden teachings) helped me tremendously to shift my focus in emotionally tough situation like that. Although I still struggle with it more often than not - at the very moment a situation like that is happening - but at least a little bit later, when recollected, I see what has happened, really. Thus it puts me in a position - to improve the situation bit by bit. Although far slower than I'd like it to, but at least I see micro-steps of improvements..
I wonder how you deal with emotionally demanding situations. Any strategies that work for you really well?
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