This is so easy to miss.
A piece going round has doctors explaining the warning signs of an enlarged prostate - and every one of them is something men brush off as age. Up at night. Weaker stream. Going more often. Never quite empty.
I did exactly that. For a while I assumed it was just the years catching up. It was my prostate, and I had no idea.
It is usually not cancer, and it is very manageable. But it sits quiet until someone says the words out loud.
So tell me - what did you put down to "getting older" before you found out what it really was? Your story might be the one that makes another member here finally book the visit.