Your Conditioning is.
Everyone says, "Just be more confident."
But confidence isn't stronger than conditioning.
You can be confident enough to start the business...
...and still procrastinate.
Confident enough to leave the relationship...
...and still go back.
Confident enough to set the boundary...
...and still say "yes."
Why?
Because confidence is a conscious feeling.
Conditioning is an unconscious program.
And unconscious programs win until you become aware of them and rewrite them.
If your actions don't match your intentions, don't assume you're weak. Ask yourself:
What program am I running?
The pattern is clue.