Don't reinvent the wheel. Successful people have followed other successful people.
Everything you see and do in life has probably been done already, by thousands of people.
Most of what you're struggling with is probably mindset shift issues inside yourself, and less about what you're doing/not doing outside.
Keep showing up consistently.
Don't be afraid to suck for a long time.
Keep practicing and watching other people who you want to copy
Don't take advice from people who you wouldn't want their life....
Thats it.
You can do this.
Happy saturday!