Learning to Be Proud of Your Failure Is the Path to Success Beyond the Material
For decades, I believed I was a failure. It pushed me into overachieving, never feeling satisfied justifying it with phrases like "satisfaction is the killer of growth."
But one day, I realized: I’m a pioneer.
I’m not lost, I'm not taking a longer route, I I’m the one drawing the map to my success.
There are no timestamps, and I’m the one choosing the milestones.
For years, my parents and society measured me as a failure. I struggled, constantly comparing myself to others.
Then it hit me comparison is unavoidable.
I dare you to walk into a room and not notice who looks like you and who doesn’t. It’s unconscious. We all compare ourselves.
The day I learned to compare myself and still love myself exactly as I am...
That’s the day everything changed.
Jealousy became inspiration.
Differences became motivation to grow.
Loving myself and doing what feels right only what feels right regardless of external pressure, became my greatest strength.
Yes, I’ve struggled.
I’ve lost friends.
I’ve lost my family’s respect.
But I’ve discovered my own love and respect.