I swear I can be in a great mood but the second I have to decide what to wear, it changes my mood. I wish I could dress all "cute" but I am not comfortable in anything since putting on so much weight. I find myself always in leggings and tshirts. I don't wear dresses anymore. I donated all my "girly" shirts because I felt so uncomfortable in them (or they just didn't fit anymore). The identity crisis is real the second I walk into my closet.