To every nursing student who found their way into this community β
Welcome. I am so glad you are here. π
I want you to know something before you say a single word or ask a single question:
You belong here. Fully. Exactly as you are right now β whether you are in your first semester
trying to survive fundamentals, deep in the weeds of pharmacology at midnight,
on your third clinical rotation wondering if you made the right choice,
or somewhere in between all of those things at once.
You belong here.
This community is called the Nurses Sanctuary β and while many of our members are practicing nurses carrying the weight of years of clinical experience, this space is also for the nurses who are becoming. Who are in the middle of the most demanding, most disorienting, most transformative professional formation of their lives.
That is you. And you deserve a space in this room.
β¦ We have been where you are. β¦
We remember nursing school. The way it demanded everything β intellectually, physically, emotionally β while also requiring you to appear calm and competent when you felt none of those things. The way clinical rotations could be exhilarating and terrifying in the same five minutes. The way the self-doubt could arrive at 2 a.m. with the precision of someone who had been waiting for you to be alone and exhausted.
We remember the questions we were afraid to ask because they felt too basic, or too obvious,
or too personal, or too much like admitting that we did not have it all figured out.
This post is your standing invitation to ask those questions.
β¦ Ask a Nurse β No Question Too Small. No Question Too Big. β¦
This is an open floor. π
Ask about the clinical stuff β the skills, the concepts, the things that are
not making sense no matter how many times you read the chapter.
Ask about the emotional stuff β how to handle a difficult clinical rotation,
how to process a patient death, how to manage the specific exhaustion
of caring for people while also trying to learn how to care for people.
Ask about nursing school survival β the study strategies, the NCLEX preparation,
the clinical expectations, the professor who terrifies you,
the clinical instructor who makes you feel like you will never be good enough.
Ask about the bigger picture β what nursing actually looks like on the other side
of the degree, what the profession is really like, what nobody tells you in the classroom
but every experienced nurse wishes someone had told her.
Ask about holistic nursing, about self-care that actually works during nursing school,
about what it means to become a nurse without losing yourself in the process.
Ask anything. π
Drop your question in the comments below β any question, no filter (of course, no profanity)
β and we will answer every single one.
Because the question you think is too small or too silly is almost certainly the
question that twenty other students in this community are too afraid to ask.
And the question you think is too vulnerable or too honest is almost certainly
the question that the nurses in this community most want to help you with.
There are no wrong questions in the Nurses Sanctuary.
There are only nurses β at every stage of the journey β
showing up for each other.
β¦ One more thing β¦
To the nursing students reading this who are struggling right now β
not just academically but personally, emotionally, in the specific
way that nursing school asks things of you that nobody warned you it would ask β
You are not alone. What you are feeling is real.
And it does not mean you are not meant for this.
Some of the best nurses I have ever known had moments in nursing
school where they were not sure they would make it through.
The doubt is not evidence against you. It is evidence that you care enough
to feel the weight of what you are becoming.
Keep going. π
Drop your question below. I am right here. β¬οΈβ¨