Aug 2 • General discussion
You Don’t Need Fixing. You Need Remembering.
Most of your personality isn’t you.
It’s who you had to become to stay safe around the people you loved most.
The overthinking.
The emotional shutdown.
The need to always “get it right.”
The fear of being fully seen.
You think it’s just how you are, but it’s not.
It’s a wound. A code. A contract you signed when you were too young to question it.
Your father’s absence taught you to doubt yourself.
Your mother’s overprotection taught you to keep women happy.
Their pain became your pattern.
And now that pattern is driving your life.
But here’s the truth:
You’re not broken.
You’re just still being run by a nervous system that never got to feel safe.
And no amount of success, journaling, or morning routines will fix what’s rooted in survival.
Until you face the core wound, you’ll keep trying to upgrade the mask.
I just dropped a full video breaking this down:
→ The 4 parent wounds that quietly control your identity
→ How they shape your relationships, purpose, and confidence
→ What it actually takes to heal and rebuild your masculine self-leadership from the ground up
Watch the full breakdown here 👇 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKvtFXAL-ig
Drop a comment after you’ve watched.
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You Don’t Need Fixing. You Need Remembering.
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