He’s not avoiding the doctor because he doesn’t care. He’s avoiding it because he’s scared.
You’ve seen the signs. The extra trips to the bathroom. The wincing he thinks you didn’t notice. The “I’m fine” that’s really “I don’t know how to talk about this.”
Nagging makes him shut down. Support makes him open up.
Try this instead of pushing. Sit beside him. Make it about “we” not “you.” Let him know he’s not facing this alone.
The men who change aren’t the ones who get lectured. They’re the ones who feel safe enough to ask for help.
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