Here’s something I’ve been reflecting on today.
Imagine you play one wrong note.
Nothing more.
Just one note.
A moment later your mind says:
“Everyone noticed.”
“My teacher must be disappointed.”
“I’m terrible at this.”
But… did any of that actually happen?
Or did the mind quietly fill in the blanks?
One of the biggest lessons music has taught me is that we often react, not to what happened, but to the story we’ve created about what happened.
The note wasn’t painful.
The story was.
The next time something doesn’t go to plan, try asking yourself:
🎵 What do I actually know?
🎵 What story have I added?
That simple question can change everything.
Sometimes the greatest breakthrough isn’t improving your playing…
it’s learning to recognise when your mind is showing you something that isn’t really there.
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Discussion
🎵 Have you ever assumed someone was judging your playing, only to discover they weren’t?
🎵 What’s one story your mind likes to tell you when you make a mistake?
🎵 How might your practice change if you questioned those stories a little more often?