Oct '25 • Soccer
Falling Behind Doesn’t Exist - Learn to Enjoy THEIR journey and trust the process
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Enjoy the Time You Have
It’s easy to get caught up in the rush.
The next tournament. The next tryout. The next level.
But in chasing what’s next, we sometimes forget what’s now.
These moments — the rides home, the muddy cleats, the laughter in the backyard — they’re the heartbeat of youth sports. They’re the moments that shape not just players, but people.
Our kids don’t need us to predict their future.
They need us to be present in their journey.
Trust the process.
Let them fall in love with the game their way — not ours.
Because what they’ll remember most isn’t the score.
It’s that you were there — cheering, believing, and letting them grow.
Live abundantly in this stage.
Because one day, the car rides end, the fields get quieter… and you’ll realize how special this time really was.
As parents, we all want the best for our kids.
But sometimes, the best thing we can do is slow down — and enjoy the journey right alongside them.
Here are a few simple ways to make that happen 👇
1️⃣ Be where your feet are.
Put the phone down. Watch practice. Notice the small things. The moments of effort, the friendships forming, the smile after a great touch. Presence builds connection.
2️⃣ Celebrate effort, not outcome.
After games, highlight the moments of hustle, teamwork, or composure. Not just the goals or results. Kids feel seen when we value their growth, not just their performance.
3️⃣ Trust their timeline.
Every player blooms differently. Avoid comparing their progress to others. The slow, steady growth is often the most lasting.
4️⃣ Make the car ride home a safe place.
Ask open questions like, “What did you enjoy most today?” instead of giving instant feedback. Let them own their experience.
5️⃣ Play more, pressure less.
Encourage them to grab a ball and just play. Backyard games, driveway dribbles — that’s where love for the game grows.
6️⃣ Remember — it’s THEIR journey.
You’ve had yours. This one belongs to them. Guide, support, and cheer. But let them write their own story.
These years go by fast.
Let’s enjoy them — not as coaches, critics, or spectators… but as parents who simply love watching their kids grow.
“Don’t rush the process. That’s where the memories are.”
— Coach Lucas Sabedra
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