Mar 4 (edited) • Announcements
Week Eight is here and here's some stuff I'm present to
First - a remarkable amount of gratitude (duh). But seriously. It is a privilege for me to work with y'all this way.
Second, the new cohorts are starting, and they will all be using the same community message boards, so you may see some new faces. They're friendly.
Third—results. Unsurprisingly, I am interested in hearing the tangible, real-world results that are showing up—but results are a funny thing to talk about in the context of the non-striving world that mindfulness occupies.
I wrote this post today on FB and LinkedIn, and it starts to cover the results my team has been getting. However, I wanted to open this up because I'd love to hear from you what's been happening. Looking for results from the world we walked into this conversation from will sort of kill it. Noticing what's present that may or may not have been there before from nonjudgmental awareness, however, will likely create a space for more.
We will talk more about this phenomenon tomorrow.
In the meantime, this what I posted on the socials:
Here’s something counterintuitive and sorta hard to talk about - like when you see something out of the corner of your eye, but when you turn, it's gone.
The agents in my mindfulness-based training increased their production by 225% year over year—without working harder, adding new lead sources, or grinding their way to success.
And yet, here’s what I don’t want you to take away from this:
“Ah, okay! If I just chill out, I’ll 2X my production too!”
Because that’s exactly the mindset that keeps people stuck in the grind.
We are so conditioned to approach success like a math equation:
Do X, get Y.
Hustle more, make more.
Push harder, get results.
The Lamborghini Leaning Hustle Crowd has us convinced it's up at 3 AM, ice baths, 75 Hard, multitasking, peak performance bullshit that will have us excel.
And yet, we know intuitively that we are more effective when we are calm, present, and available than when we are frantic, exhausted, and pressed.
The thing that's kind of hidden here is that striving is often what gets in the way.
Think about it. You introduce tension, resistance, and pressure when you start going for something—gripping tighter, trying harder, focusing on the outcome rather than the process.
And pressure? Kills performance. (Maybe the "perform better under pressure" crowd only does so because they have trained their brain to be calm better than those around them?)
The agents in this course did not aim for these results. They did not try to increase their production by 225%.
Instead, they created a clearing—an open space where new results could emerge.
They stopped gripping.
They let go of the worry, the frantic push, the need to control every deal.
They became more present, more aware, and more available to what was actually happening in front of them.
And in that space? Everything shifted.
More clients said yes.
More deals flowed.
More momentum built—without the grind.
This is the part that messes with people’s heads:
The moment you try to “achieve” flow, you lose it.
Flow is not something you chase. It’s something you allow.
This is the shift most agents (and, let’s be honest, most people) never make because it requires trusting that ease can produce better results than effort.
Not no effort. But the kind of effort that’s light, clear, and aligned—not forced, anxious, and desperate.
In developing my course and writing my book, I've been grappling with this question: What if I stopped pushing?
What if the next level of my business (or life) isn’t on the other side of grinding harder? What if it’s on the other side of getting out of my way?
That’s what’s happening here. And I've put everything I’ve learned into my free, mindfulness meditation training: How to Live a Grateful Life in a Fcked Up World.
If you’re tired of grinding and ready to create the kind of space where real results show up, the next cohorts launch on March 5th and March 11th.
This isn’t about doing more; it’s about becoming more available to the results already trying to find you. (and yes I know how woo woo that sounds but I can tell ya it is the way things work)
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Week Eight is here and here's some stuff I'm present to
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