Dec '25 • Faith, Family & Life Balance
Presence Is the Real Success
A long time ago, I made a decision.
God and my family would come before my business.
That decision wasn’t easy.
It felt risky.
It felt irresponsible at times.
It felt like I was going against everything I was being told about success.
I wondered if I could really do better in business by working less.
Here’s what I learned.
First, we don’t just set aside time for God — we include Him in everything we do.
Yes, there are moments of quiet.
Solitude matters.
Sitting with Him matters.
But God isn’t limited to early mornings or a prayer closet.
He can be in your meetings.
Your decisions.
Your negotiations.
Your work.
Second, I learned I could be present for all my kids’ activities and still run a successful business.
I learned how to be efficient.
How to work without distractions.
How to stop wasting time.
I can accomplish in 15–20 focused hours what others need 40+ hours to do.
That’s not magic.
It’s focus.
It’s intention.
It’s working hard when I work.
Third, if I compromise my schedule for money, I will always be willing to compromise.
That line matters.
Dinner with my family every day was something my wife and I decided on before our kids were born.
We’ve honored that for 23 years.
Are there adjustments?
Of course.
But work doesn’t get that time
They said most kids aren’t as lucky as they are… because their dads have to work.
I corrected them.
I told them I do work.
And I work hard.
They just don’t see me work — because I’m always there for them.
That’s the gift.
Not the money.
Not the business.
Not what’s under the tree.
Presence is the gift.
If you’re an entrepreneur, I want to encourage you:
It is possible to love God deeply.
Show up fully for your family.
And run a successful business.
You don’t have to choose.
What boundary would you need to set to protect your family better?
What belief about work might need to change?
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Presence Is the Real Success
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