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Random real ish talk #life
A year ago, I don’t think I realized how much survival mode had become my normal.
I was focused on getting through the day, putting out fires, carrying responsibilities, and making sure everyone else was okay.
Somewhere along the way, I stopped asking myself if I was okay.
And if I’m being completely honest, I tried to move forward before I was fully ready.
I tried dating.
I thought maybe I was ready for a new chapter.
What I learned was that healing doesn’t happen because we want it to. It happens when we do the work.
The experience taught me a lot about myself. It showed me areas where I still needed growth, boundaries, and healing.
For a moment, I felt like I was back at square one.
But I’ve realized something important:
I’m not back at square one.
I’m back with more wisdom.
More awareness.
More self-respect.
More clarity about what I need and what I deserve.
Sometimes life doesn’t send us backward. Sometimes it sends us a lesson.
So now, instead of focusing on finding someone else, I’m focusing on finding myself again.
Building my routines.
Keeping my promises to myself.
Working on my goals.
Creating structure.
Choosing peace.
Because the woman I’m becoming isn’t built in one big moment.
She’s built in the small decisions I make every day.
The boundary.
The walk.
The water.
The prayer.
The journal entry.
The decision to keep going.
What is one lesson you’ve learned recently that changed the way you see yourself?
I’d love to hear it. ❤️
👇 Drop it below.
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Random real ish talk #life
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