Growing up, I always liked complimenting people. It is the nice and respectful thing to do. Some of my first compliments came from men. "Heterosexual Men" to be exact. Like a Barber complimenting you after noticing that your not too sure if the haircut you were just given fits you well. Or your father helping you learn how to fix your tie and telling you that you look sharp as he pats the shoulders of your brand new suit before you arrive to church. Or let's just say it's someone you walked by as you were walking down the street and they admired your brand new Jordan's on your feet. It's just a compliment. Why do men think that when another man compliments them, they take it in a flirtatious way? Don't flatter yourself my guy, who even told you I found you attractive? I was just being nice. These same men are comfortable with sharing their sexual activity stories with their "Bro's" and saying shit like "Bro's Before Hoes". They are comfortable with being shirtless, pants sagging and showing their boxers, hands always in their underwear grabbing on their dick in front of whoever. It's a lot of zesty shit going on, but let me say the wrong thing and it's a problem. Like keep it a buck, it is cool for you to tell your homie about the bitch with the big titties, fat ass and wet pussy you got some head and ass from the other night and how good her throat game was. But let me say I got bent over last night and dude was bigger than a air refreshening can, it's now an issue. Ya girl got a girlfriend and you cool. Ya homie found him some trade last night and now it's "Pause".
You don't fuck with the LGBTQ community and don't want your children around the shit, but you rocking Tom Ford classes cause you seen them in a Jay Z music video or you dyed your dreads cause you thought it looked cool on Lil Wayne or you got your nose pierced because you claim you paying homage to Tupac and wearing perms because of Snoop Dogg. Fuck outta here and miss me with the bullshit.
I mean, y'all want people to keep it 100 but the truth hurts. This is only me speaking truth. Don't shoot the messenger.