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Thankful Thursday
Hey ladies, today we want to tell our Savior what we're thankful for...
I'm thankful for losing access to someone that was not capable of carrying me!
Think about it, you're doing everything right, praying, fasting, waiting, staying pure, working on yourself, healing, serving, becoming the woman they are praying for... and yet you're still alone!
They always seem to choose someone else who's less disciplined, less patient, someone who didn't wait and seems less ready. That kind of rejection hasn't just hurt your heart, it messes with your identity. Then the dangerous questions begin to surface...Am I too much? Too strong? Too independent? Have I wasted my time doing it God's way? NOPE!!!
The raw truth is being good doesn't guarantee being chosen by someone who is not aligned. There are times when you are not rejected because you lack something, but because of what you require. Like depth, consistency, growth, accountability, and not every man can handle that. A healed woman feels intimidating to a man who is still negotiating his own discipline. If he chooses easier, less accountability, and someone who requires less growth that's information for you to analyze. Stop translating his choices into your value.
You're not too strong.
You're not too serious.
You're not too deep.
You're not too independent.
You're just not for everyone!
Not being chosen saved you from something you can't yet see. You are not behind, you are being preserved, and that is not a flaw it's filtration. You are not here to be generally accepted and you do not need universal approval. What you need is to be specifically aligned with intentional partnership. Allow those who can not handle your depth to walk away.
Remember, the greatest blessing is not who chooses you, but the greatest blessing may be who does not! So Queens ask yourself honestly,
Did I really lose, or was access hindered from someone/something that was not capable of carrying me?
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Thankful Thursday
