“It’s too late for me to start.”
And I want to talk about this directly because I think it is one of the most damaging things you can tell yourself.
26 is not too late. 35 is not too late. 45 is not too late.
What is actually happening when you say it is too late is not a fact. It is fear wearing a very convincing disguise. It sounds logical. It feels responsible. But it is just fear.
Here is the truth and I need you to sit with it.
Starting something new is hard at any age. At 26 you doubt yourself because you feel inexperienced. At 35 you doubt yourself because you have responsibilities. At 45 you doubt yourself because you feel like you should have figured this out already. The doubt does not go away with age. It just changes its reason.
So you are never going to reach an age where starting feels easy. That age does not exist.
What you are really choosing between is not young and old. It is not ready and not ready. It is two kinds of hard.
The hard of staying where you are. The exhaustion. The resentment. The slow erosion of wanting something more and never doing anything about it.
Or the hard of starting. The uncertainty. The slow progress. The days where nothing seems to be working yet.
Both are hard. You do not get to avoid hard.
You just get to choose which hard you are willing to live with.