I had an eye-opening experience recently that reminded me how quickly trust can be lost—and how hard it is to get back. It got me thinking about what separates legitimate businesses from the ones that make you want to run in the opposite direction.
As founders, we're often so focused on building our product, finding customers, and keeping the lights on that we sometimes overlook the basics of business legitimacy. But here's the thing: those basics aren't just nice-to-haves. They're what determine whether people will want to work with you, invest in you, or recommend you to others.
What Went Wrong (And What It Taught Me) 🚩
I recently encountered a startup that looked promising on the surface but fell apart under basic scrutiny. No formal agreements, vague communication, requests for personal information without proper context, and defensive responses to reasonable questions.
The whole experience made me realize how much we take legitimacy for granted when it's there, and how obvious it is when it's missing. More importantly, it made me think about what we as founders need to do to build that trust from day one.
The Foundation: Clear Agreements 🤝
This might seem obvious, but you'd be surprised how many early-stage companies try to operate on handshake deals and verbal agreements. Formal contracts can feel heavy, but clear agreements don't slow you down, they speed you up. When everyone knows exactly what's expected, you spend less time managing confusion and more time doing actual work.
This means being clear about expectations, putting important agreements in writing, and following through on what you promise. Simple templates can work fine—just use them consistently.
Communication That Builds Trust 🗣️
One of the biggest red flags I encountered was inconsistent communication. Different people giving different answers, vague responses, and the classic "we're still figuring out the details" dodge for basic business questions.
Honest communication doesn't mean you have everything figured out. It means being upfront about what you know, what you don't know, and what you're working on. People can handle uncertainty much better than feeling misled.
Respecting People's Information 🔒
There's a fine line between gathering the information you need and asking for too much, too early. Be thoughtful about what you actually need and when. Be clear about why you're asking for it and what you'll do with it. And for anything sensitive, ensure proper security measures—it shows you take responsibilities seriously.
Building Credibility Over Time ✅
Legitimacy isn't just about avoiding red flags—it's about actively building credibility. This means having references people can contact, case studies that show your work, and some kind of track record.
If you're just starting out, deliver consistently, and ask satisfied customers or partners if they'd be willing to serve as references. Your online presence matters too; people should find something substantial when they Google your company.
When Things Go Wrong 🩹
Here's something that separates legitimate businesses from questionable ones: how they handle problems. Everyone makes mistakes. The difference is in how you respond.
Own your mistakes quickly and clearly. Explain what happened, what you're doing to fix it, and how you'll prevent it from happening again. Don't make excuses or pretend it's not a big deal. This kind of accountability actually builds trust.
The Pressure to Move Fast 💨
There's enormous pressure in the startup world to move quickly. But there's a difference between moving fast and cutting corners on legitimacy. Taking the time to create clear agreements, communicate honestly, and build proper systems isn't bureaucracy—it's investment in your long-term success.
The companies that survive and thrive are the ones that people trust to deliver on their promises. That trust is built through consistent, professional behavior over time.
What This Means for Your Business 🌟
If you're building a company, take a step back and ask yourself: if someone were evaluating my business the way I evaluated that questionable startup, what would they find?
Do you have clear agreements? Can people get straight answers? Do you protect information appropriately? Can people verify your track record? These aren't just nice-to-haves; they're the foundation that allows you to get bigger in the first place.
Most of this doesn't require significant resources—just intention and consistency. Your reputation as a founder will follow you throughout your career. The habits you build now around legitimacy and trust will determine your ability to build successful ventures in the future.
What practices have you found most important for building trust in your business relationships? Have you encountered situations where lack of legitimacy became a deal-breaker?