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ARTICLE No. 001 Becoming Aware of Emotional Conditioning
Becoming Aware of Emotional Conditioning
Emotional conditioning normally happens through one or more emotional experiences, like an abrupt interrupt moment, such as a loss of trust, a self-confidence issue, feeling guilty, or a tough time expressing properly after an initial shock experience. It can be as simple as one word, felt with a lot of feeling that triggered the initial mask, and likely family initial interference.
After that, it develops quietly through repetition, ideally 21 days, and the pattern is locked within the subconscious mind, and then repeated through thousands of small experiences accumulated over a lifetime. One mask, worn over another.
As children, we naturally look to those around us for safety, belonging, acceptance, and guidance.
We observe.
We imitate.
We adapt.
Without realizing it, we begin forming emotional conclusions about ourselves and about life, without ever having the adult awareness of questioning it, which distorts the innocence of childhood.
For many, we learned that expressing emotion was unsafe.
For many, we learned that love had to be earned.
For many, we learned to remain silent to avoid conflict.
For many, we learned that our worth depended upon achievement, approval, or perfection from others.
None of these conclusions is made consciously.
They become part of the subconscious emotional blueprint through repetition.
Over time, they feel normal.
Eventually, they become invisible.
This is why emotional awareness is so valuable.
Awareness gently shines light into areas that have quietly operated in the background for years.
It does not criticize.
It does not blame.
It does not judge.
It simply reveals.
As awareness expands, something remarkable begins to happen.
The conscious choice to heal the negative interfering feeling, or remain complacent by refusing to deal with the issue.
Rather than automatically reacting, we begin consciously choosing and making a better choice.
Rather than being governed by fear, we begin responding with action, accountability, ownership, and personal responsibility.
The healing assists with releasing the emotional entanglements with the past by dissolving the negating emotional interferences and making better choices, action, and consciously embodying peace, joy, and love within ourselves.
This is where genuine healing begins.
Not through blame.
Not through resistance.
Not through changing other people, but through changing ones inner-world. It's not an outside job, as it's an inside job, and the outside world reflects accordingly.
By becoming aware of what has quietly shaped us, it's a choice to either live with it, or properly deal with it, as it's never too late to start again. The Universe gives all of us a second chance to make amends with the past, heal properly, and redeem ourselves back into the arms of the Universe.
That choice belongs to each of us.
It always has.
Reflection
Take a quiet moment and ask yourself:
- Which beliefs about yourself have you consciously chosen?
- Which beliefs have been inherited from family, culture, education, or life experiences?
- Are there emotional patterns that no longer reflect the person you are becoming?
- With those emotional patterns gently released, what greater peace, freedom, or authenticity might become possible?
Sometimes the most meaningful transformation begins with a single moment of awareness.
And perhaps that moment is now.
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ARTICLE No. 001 Becoming Aware of Emotional Conditioning
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Assisting with releasing emotional entanglements from family, childhood experiences, culture & religion, and with attaining a Peaceful Soul Closure.
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