Tactful Honesty Over Polite Avoidance
This week’s Elemental Male blog dives into a pattern most men do not want to admit.
People pleasing is quiet self abandonment. Placating is just avoidance with a polite tone.
Some men even surround themselves with people pleasers because it keeps them unchallenged and comfortable. But comfort is not growth. Comfort is stagnation that looks peaceful on the surface.
A grounded man does not need to be placated. He does not need to be protected from truth. He wants clarity. He wants direct communication. He wants the cards on the table so he can make an informed adult decision about how to move forward.
The man who seeks people pleasers is managing insecurity.
The man who seeks honesty is building connection.
That is the difference.
That is the work.
That is the Elemental Male.
What part of people pleasing or placating have you had to break free from?