Nov 11 • General discussion
Stoicism or Shutdown: Most men get Stoicism wrong!
Many men think being “unbothered” is a sign of strength, but there’s a big difference between being calm and being disconnected.
The original Stoics, men like Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and Epictetus, never taught emotional shutdown. They taught awareness, reflection, and the ability to respond with clarity. They felt deeply, but they didn’t let emotion control them. That’s real discipline.
Modern masculinity often twists this idea. “Be stoic” becomes “don’t feel.” Men are told to hide emotion, not master it. What was once a practice of presence becomes a habit of avoidance. Calm turns into numbness.
The ancient Stoic was unbothered because he had done the inner work. The modern version is unbothered because he has shut down.
True Stoicism isn’t armor. It’s alignment.
Questions for discussion:
- Do you see this confusion between Stoicism and emotional shutdown in men today?
- What does emotional strength mean to you?
- How can men practice presence without falling into numbness?
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Stoicism or Shutdown: Most men get Stoicism wrong!
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