Were you in love or in love with who they could've been?

This one is hard.

Sometimes we say:

" loved them so much."

But if we're honest...

We loved: the potential the promises

the version of them in our head the fantasy of the future we built together

We ignored: red flags emotional distance inconsistency

the way our body felt unsafe around them

Because our heart said:

"Maybe they'll change."

But here's the truth:

You don't have to fall in love with someone who might treat you right someday.

You deserve someone who chooses you now.

Have you ever realized you were grieving the dream not the person?

How did you let it go, or are you still learning?

Let's talk. ✨

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