It is choosing your relationships, which is also avoiding some...
Your income....
Your confidence....
Your future.....
And the cruel part is this:
Because you never officially chose it, you may not realize how much of your life has already been organized around it.
So maybe the question is not (actually its never that question)
What decision have you been avoiding?
Maybe the real question is:
What has that avoided decision already cost you — and how much longer are you willing to keep paying for it?
Any comments?