One of the biggest misconceptions about creating the life you want is the belief that you have to work extremely hard for it.
That idea usually comes from the ego.
The ego believes results are created through effort, pressure and constant doing. And many of us learned to identify with our actions and achievements. But a concept I'm trying to integrate is the following:
Results don’t come from effort alone.They come from the state you operate from.
Your state influences your perception, your decisions and the actions you take. When your state shifts, your behavior naturally shifts with it, but also the timeline you attract into your physical reality. Opportunities become visible, conversations unfold differently and things start moving with less internal resistance.
From the outside it can look like things suddenly start working out. From the inside the unseen happened; you've simply shifted your state.
This doesn’t mean action disappears, it means action becomes aligned.
So the real question is not: “How can I work harder to get this?”
The real question is: Who do I need to become for this result to be natural?
If you want to dive deeper into this; look up inner and outer intention from the book Reality Transurfing by Vladim Zeland