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Why I Move Things Forward Only With Mutual Interest.
Bread crumbing has become an common complaint in dating. Not knowing where you stand with someone only creates feeling of ambiguity. So I have made it a personal rule that I will not engage with somebody that doesn't reciprocate. I will not waste my time and emotional bandwidth to just be lead along.
Some signs that she does this or will do it are.
- She flirts with you but it seems undeserved, too much too early, there is a manipulative intention behind it, simply for you too chase, too validate her. Alot of the time these kind of girls already have boyfriends or husbands.
- She had an unbalanced amount of male friends to female friends, she's hooked on male attention, tries to take it as much as possible and other women sense this. Women hate this kind of girl.
- Cancels plans with you last minute, says something just came up. This can be legitimate or a manipulative ploy. What we want to look for here, Does she keep on canceling last minute, I only allow for 1 cancellation in the beginning stages of dating and there has to be a meaningful reason behind it. Don't waste your time.
- If she doesn't initiate text conversation CAN be a sign. Some girls are just forgetful or disorganized.
- Tells you something negative that is currently going on in her life but the story doesn't match up too what other people are saying when you double check with them. It may feel like a sense of her confiding in you in that moment but if there is a thorough mismatch in what other people are telling you too when you check the validity of it. Understand the degree to which this person actually knows you and why would they confide in someone they have only known for a short time or don't have deep rapport with, This will help you see through the lie they told you.
I am sure I could write a longer list but that would take forever.
This is simply written to help you build awareness.
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Why I Move Things Forward Only With Mutual Interest.
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