Aug 26 • General discussion
Introducing Myself 👋
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Hey I’m Micaiah! (Mih-Kay-uh or muh-Kay-uh)
I’m a Christian, wife, work from home mom, podcast host, and Christian marriage Coach!
Fun fact: my name means “Who is like Yahweh?”
I love this because as I’m out in the world interacting with others, I know my name is spreading the message without people even knowing it. People who don’t know God, have no idea they are participating in worship when they say my name. Words have more power than we give them credit for 🙌
My name isn’t my only asset though. I am also a certified life coach, I specialize in helping Christian wives speak to their husband calmly, clearly, and with love and reverence, so they can have a deeply connected marriage. Essentially, I help the wives gain radical accountability and transformation, so they can have an impact on their husband, whether he changes or not.
A lot of woman come to me craving teamwork in their marriage. They want a strong and reliable partnership. I help them achieve this, but first we must go back to the root. I don’t deal in surface level, I take my clients through a strategic plan that heals the root cause, not just the symptoms.
The best part is, my methods don’t require taking on the role of head of the house (because he “isn’t doing a good enough job”), complaining, momming him, or shutting him out for the sake of boundaries. They also don’t require traditional counseling or therapy measures (but I’ve taken the best of modern psychology, to support my curriculum further)!
What’s unique about my approach?
I work with the wife 1:1, and I get her where she wants to be, using biblical truths found in scripture. Then, if she chooses to and her husband is on board, we can bring the husband into the coaching setting.
This works because all bitterness, resentment, anger, disgust, or lack of respect, has to be dealt with in private or the husband will sense it and it will make things WORSE. Which unfortunately is why a lot of marriage counseling fails.
In my approach we allow both couples to be apart of it, and benefit from it, but only once I can tell the woman has softened and healed a bit! The best part is that wives often see change in their husband before he ever does join, just because she changed something in her own behavior.
My framework is also unique because I don’t just coach or counsel you like most marriage mentors would. I actually teach you the coaching tools. You learn all the coaching tools I was trained on in my certification, as well as how to use them by yourself once you finish working with me. This way you are never trapped in needing endless coaching to feel better or relying on someone else to get you out of a rut. Instead you know that while you always can, you never have to, hire a coach again! It’s an empowering choice to have and it means you’re never left stranded without the tools to be a better wife.
If you want to follow along with my mission of helping spouses feel deeply connected and joyful again, then come listen the United Christian Marriage Podcast, and follow me on socials!
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Introducing Myself 👋
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