I had my few shares of night life and I can say with total honesty that going out to party is not worth it.
Do not make it your hobby.
Unless you are using it as a means to be extra social and meeting women.
If that is not your case, you are better off looking for more meaningful activities.
Sunday mornings > Saturday nights
Let's face it, the best part of a night out is the expectations that you make in your own head.
The anticipation of how a great night is going to be.
And most of the times, you get back home disappointed.
That is the average experience.
What if I told you, leave the party nights for special ocasions ?
National and local festivities, start of classes, after exams, proms, after achieving a goal...
Hell, you can even organize a party vacation with your group of friends. But again, do not make it a habit.
If you still want to go out at night every week or even twice a week:
- Make it a goal to be social with everybody. If a guy peeks your curiosity, is an attractive girl crosses your eyesight, if you saw somebody from class who you haven't spoken to yet, interact with them.
- Zero Alcohol ( maybe max one drink if you can control yourself )
- Know when to leave the party and go home if your social battery has run out.
DbK, ST.