This space was birthed from a lifetime of transformation.
I know what it feels like to shed old skins again and again:
- Transitioning my gender.
- Shifting from “untranslatable” careers—caregiving, stripping, dog walking, budtending—into software engineering and entrepreneurship.
- Alchemizing childhood and adult trauma into raw power.
- Transforming a decade-long friendship into a love that could last forever.
Each time, I entered the cocoon not knowing who I’d be on the other side—only trusting that change was necessary.
This is what the Butterfly Portal is about:
A place to honor the cocoon, to break open, and to fly.
What You’ll Find Here
🌑 The Cocoon: a space to share where you are and what you’re leaving behind.
꩜ Metamorphosis: lessons, tools, and stories to guide you through your own transformations.
🦋 The Flight: wins, breakthroughs, and living proof that change is possible.
What I Ask of You
- Show up with honesty, even if it’s raw.
- Celebrate your wins, big and small.
- Honor others’ transformations as sacred.
This is not just a community.
It’s a portal.
And once you step through, you’re never the same.