I was talking to one of my clients the other day on a coaching callβ¦
Not saying her name for her privacy, anyway, she was talking about how she relapsed on alcohol, weed and smoking.
And she was beating herself up over it.
But I reframed it, and in my opinion for everyone who is reading this RN, of you are self aware of your failures and mistakes, you have already won. Your a winner who has just failed this once.
For example, relapsing into bad habits is not the problem; it is your mindset towards it!
IMO, of when ever you fail at something whether that be a business venture, relapsing, whatever of you are able to admit to yourself you failed, and call yourself a failure and be accountable, that is amazing, and you will of course feel a little bit dissatisfied still, yes, but that will then strive for you to not make the same failure again!
Something I also always say to myself in my mind when I fail, cause I fail all the time lol, I say βNo failures, no lessons, no light without dark.β
And it is true, imagine you succeeded at everything all the time, what would be the value in success?
There is always something positive to every bad thing; you just need to look hard enough.
I am a failure myself, but I am grateful for them cause I know there cannot be light without darkβ¦
I failed so many different businesses. I tried copywriting, video editing, faceless automation channels, multiple YT channels, affiliate marketing, dropshipping, flipping, and so much more.
I fail every day, I make mistakes daily, I go over my calorie limit, I skip a meditation here and there, and I am grateful I do.
If you are not actively calling yourself a failureβ¦
You actually are a failure.
Donβt forget this lesson, failureβs are something to smile at and be grateful for.
I hope this teaches you a valuable lesson, failures are not something to be afraid of, they are not
something that is meant to never happenβ¦.
No, no, no failures are necessary, necessary for your growth, accountability, and to learn stuff. Next time you fail, be accountable to that failure, and donβt downplay it and be grateful for the lessons you have just learned and the dissatisfaction you feel right now, that will motivate you to not make the same mistake again.
Keep on failing, do not fear failure, be grateful and have a positive mindset towards it.