What my wife and I have learned in the past 4 years is that growing together is learning about each other. Although there are many aspects about each other that are the same when we were dating we are not the same person we were when we first got married. A long with growing together we got continue to learn about each other as we change and with the continue to fall in love with each other as well. We were growing but getting frustrated with each other because we weren’t learning about each other her learning about my passions needs as a man and her passion needs as a woman. Once we learned that we became like newly weds again. It was exciting, although we gone on many dates together as a married couple we also began to pursue each other. When we started doing that we learned to trigger each other less we became more patient with each other. We saw a change our marriage was never really in trouble but it is better than it ever was.