âSometimes, the hardest part of healing is realizing the signs we missed along the way. This poll is not about blameâitâs about awareness. By sharing what youâve experienced, you might help another woman see what she needs to.â
âVote for the red flag you think is the clearest warning sign. If youâve experienced others, share them in the commentsâyour story might help someone else spot what they need to see.â
Secrecy with phone or social media â suddenly hiding or locking devices.
Emotional distance â pulling away, less affection, or avoiding intimacy.
Gaslighting or blame-shifting â making you feel âcrazyâ for noticing issues.
Unexplained absences â late nights, vague stories, or disappearing acts
Change in behavior â sudden new habits, interests, or defensiveness.
Financial secrecy â hiding spending, credit cards, or unexplained withdrawals