“Sometimes, the hardest part of healing is realizing the signs we missed along the way. This poll is not about blame—it’s about awareness. By sharing what you’ve experienced, you might help another woman see what she needs to.”
“Vote for the red flag you think is the clearest warning sign. If you’ve experienced others, share them in the comments—your story might help someone else spot what they need to see.”
Secrecy with phone or social media – suddenly hiding or locking devices.
Emotional distance – pulling away, less affection, or avoiding intimacy.
Gaslighting or blame-shifting – making you feel “crazy” for noticing issues.
Unexplained absences – late nights, vague stories, or disappearing acts
Change in behavior – sudden new habits, interests, or defensiveness.
Financial secrecy – hiding spending, credit cards, or unexplained withdrawals