May 14 • General discussion
What If Someday Never Comes?
Hey Baddie 👑
I'm gonna hold your hand with I say this... 90% of your life happens in everyday clothes, thats where true identity is built yet you're saving your "best looks" for what exactly?
The school drop off. The work from home day. The gym. The grocery store run. The Tuesday that feels like it doesn't count. That's where you actually live. That's where your identity is being built whether you're paying attention or not.
When my father passed three years ago I had to clean out his things. And what I found in that closet... Clothes. Shoes. Bags. Tags still on. All of it. An entire identity he had built for himself in his mind that was just sitting there. Waiting. He was saving it for someday.
Someday never came.
And what broke my heart wasn't just the grief. It was the realization that my father had a version of himself he never let out. His everyday self and his best self were two completely different people and he never introduced them.
And I fear some of you are doing the same.
Every day you get dressed on autopilot you are practicing being invisible. You are sending yourself a message that today doesn't count. That you don't count. Identity doesn't get built in the moments you perform for other people, it gets built in the quiet ordinary moments when nobody is watching and you still choose yourself anyway. The going out outfit gets the intention. The everyday you gets the afterthought. And that is completely backwards.
So ladies, What is hanging in your closet right that represent the identity you want to have but never stepped into and.... what are you actually waiting for? 🖤
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What If Someday Never Comes?
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