It's frustrating that you can't help someone who doesn't want help. Like my younger brother for example. I had a stroke almost two years ago which I have managed to heal almost completely through the knowledge that I have gratefully acquired during my spiritual awakening. My brother had a stroke a few months ago, first a heart attack, had surgery, died nine times before the surgery was completed. Two days later he had a stroke. When I offered my help. I got the answer "I don't believe in such crap. Now he sits in his house, has difficulty moving, can barely talk. I have planted some seeds and hope for the best