May 14 Q&A — “The Dark Bunny, Big Dreams & Showing Up Anyway”

I never really know what’s going to happen when we show up to these calls. All I know is that my job is to remain open— open to wherever the conversation leads, open to the pauses, the pivots, the quiet truths that rise when we're not trying to script it all.

I’ve been in a lot of rooms where people raise their hands, wait their turn, maybe take a note or two from someone else’s question. But today felt different. The energy was raw, real, and honest—and that matters. When we let the conversation unfold like that, without forcing it, it creates something truly transformative.

I believe moments like these propel us forward. They honour our creativity. They remind us that showing up with our full selves—mess and all—is part of the process.

Today was about following your soul, your intuition, your passion—and not letting the Dark Bunny drive the car.

Create for you. Don't model others just because they got it right at one point in time. When it comes to creating, carve your own path. What is calling you? Listen and respond. Even though sometimes this may seem like the harder path, it can be the most rewarding.

🔥 Real-Life Takeaways You Can Use Right Now:

1. Your resistance has a voice—name it. We all have that part of us that whispers, “Why bother?” or “You’re not ready.” In today’s call, we named that voice the Dark Bunny.

✅ Try: Label it. Identify it. And keep calling it out at every turn. But don’t let it drive.

2. Filming can evolve organically. You don’t have to start with a perfect setup or vision. Your process will unfold as you take steps.

✅ Trust: Start messy. Let clarity come from action.

3. Action isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s prepping a tripod. Sending one DM. Watching videos through a different lens.

✅ Momentum: The big dream is made up of a hundred small steps. Zoom out to remember why you started—then zoom back into the now.

4. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s endurance. Most people quit before giving themselves a real shot. If you’re still showing up—you’re ahead of the game.

✅ Remember: Keep going. Even when it’s quiet. Even when it’s hard. That’s what makes the difference.

I was reminded today: This isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about being in the room. Being in the practice. Following the little nudges that say: “Keep going. This part matters, too.” You never know where you'll end up.

It's a journey—and we're on it together. Let's keep showing up.

Watch the replay here.

Elfina 💖

~ A song I mentioned to share from our call today—a reminder of what really matters and what are we really chasing:

🎵 Andy Grammer – 85

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